Friday, March 14, 2008

Friendships......

Just too free......right now at cai house wif song,alice and susan.....Then Simply too free le........Cai suggests that maybe we can search thru the website for the best friend quote......Haha......and honestly speaking....I canot find one tt best describe friendship....A friend in need is a friend indeed...this is de most famous quote amongst all the friends quote....but I tin this quote also must see how big de situation is.....Let take an extreme example....if you friend owe a loan shark 1 million dollar(JUST AN example) lol........Will U help him to pay his debt although he did not ask for?Then cfm gt ppl will say help in the way that you u are able do so........or some might even say tt shld not help at all as tt was his fault to borrow it from loan shark(at least alice tt standing behind me said so lol)...............................Then is tt a real friendship by not helping?But if helped him he might go lend money from the loan shark again.......Would you expect a friend to help you in such situation.Cai said he would just help as much as he could and don tin too much....how many can do so? lol Is tt a gd friends? I don no hahaha....there is no right or wrong answer........ Honestly speaking.....Human being is an interesting species haha.

From the past experience i have wif people that i met and the story that have been told from my parent about them wif their sibbliing and friends..........I am confused......Haha......Maybe you all will said that last time the person and my parent have met is not our real friends............Even he treat me as friend and i treat them as friend before....it might turn out tt we are not friend in the future anymore if sometin really happen......Hahaha....it is just too confusing...It is very funny/wierd to hear from a 3rd parties that someone that you tot is ur friends are not your friends haha....Imagine in future that the friend/person(B) u know right now say the person(A) u no last time is not really ur friend and history repeat again when ur friend/person C in the future said tt the person tt used to be ur friend/person(B) in the past are not you friend....Then who is really my friend? Tt y.....I rather have an open enemies than a false friend...............But haha it is just my mindset.......Dis friendship topic.....last time cai,alice,song also argue with me before.....Haha and it seems that my mindset did not really improve? or i shld say disprove? Be myself, Be yourself.........i canot really convey the tin tt i wan to say thru word haha

Haha...Sometime....People did comment to me Why i am lidat......What wrongs wif me.........Why I cannot just accept those friendship tt person is willing to contribute haha.......some might even say tt he is not trying to be my friend or wad after i have clarify/question them haha......I don't no why........ Haha.......like wad i have just said....i rather have an open enemies than a false friend........LOL..... I have my own definition of friends......and i don really no how to explain/describe it but i am 100% confident tt the person i have treated as friend have alred treated me as one too......i am 100% confident...............No matter wad happen hahahahahah
.....Kk i really hope tt there will be no comment from anyone for this post....especially those tt don support me and tell me to have more friend then enemies after i have wrote so much haha.........Hope that I will not argue wif any of my friend on this topic anymore....or hear any comment people about how stupid/foolish I am doing.......hahahaha...........Teach u all a way....To be friend wif anyone just let nature take its course.... over sincere = forcing ........And Common topic/interest is really impt haha.................AND most important is Don force yourself to have same interest or topic so that u can make friend wif other ppl...That is just so tiring hahahaha Kk.....Take care All..............

1 Comments:

Blogger Ruben said...

sia lar.. you and tiring thing again.. ahahha... you trying to hint me is it! ROFL. kiddinggg.. xD

12:14 PM  

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