Backstab <============== <============

Recently i have been watching Survivor....a show that i like it so much as it clearly show how different ppl is treating the game to fight for 1million dollar(if u earn 2k a month is equivalent to 40yrs+ of ur salary...which is a lot)

Backstab...a sensitive topic....i wont dare to say that i never backstab a ppl before cos backstabbing can be in any forms and different ppl might have their own definition of backstabbing.

From my point of view, if a person backstab one ppl before,they will do it again. I think whether a person will backstab people or not is closely related to their personality/character/perception which is totally hard to change unless they undergoes near-death experience hehe..........

Anyway i would like to point out.....from my pt of view.....Mainly, backstab is through verbally/mentally ......Verbally/mentally as it name suggest refers to influence/convince ppl to gain their trust or alternate their way of thinking..Example(no need to think it is you anot cos i change de story by alot) ,without me forcing he/she to do so, told me that he/she wont talk to person A BUt ended up still talking with person A(which i don mind) and FORCE(this is what i mind) me to talk to person A.......how contradicting!!!!!!!! You never force someone to do anything for such circumstances..Imagine i quarrel with another person and FORCE you not to friend him anymore!!!! IT just sound so childish and inconsiderate...

In a conclusion.............Only trust those that you can really trust (maybe you can purposely tell them some secret to test them, lol which i always do so).... Be prepared to receive any form of backstab from anyone so that at least the injuries that go into your heart can be less severe/ painful... SOrry for those that i have backstabbed you without realizing........maybe i just not the one that you can trust............Hope that everyone include me can find a friend that they can trust
no matter in any circumstances~~~~~